Things About Grounding a Child

I have been out of the loop a lot this week after having to handle more drama with Kaely at school. At first, it seemed one-sided and that she was being ganged up on... as the days have passed, I've found that for the sake of winning approval- she seems to be encouraging a lot of drama in the classroom. Combined with lying and blatantly disregarding instructions not to "share" anything (such as her lunch, money, hair accessories, etc)- she won herself a week's grounding. I was so angry about her actions, I took everything out of her room with the exception of her bed, clothes, a couple pencils, and chapter books. I got her from school and escorted her straight to her room- and other than a cup for water- she was on her own.

If you've ever heard that punishing a child is usually more punishing to the parent- it's beyond true. I was so worked up and then worn out before the evening ever even arrived. Plus, it means every plan we had got thrown out the window- running to the store, going to holiday events at the parks, visiting Santa, etc. Worse yet, it's most punishing to Chase, because he LOVES playing with Kaely. But- so does she- so I can't have that for now.

So, the earlier bedtimes, grounding, teething (I swear I'm going to throw a party when he finally gets all these teeth in), and lack of sleep- I'm just worn out! Then, it backfires even more the day following her first day of "grounding"- by her letting me know "Mom, you know this grounding thing is working out, it's not so bad after all!"  SERIOUSLY??? Is this reverse psychology from a 7 year old? Or is this simply about getting attention from me- even as negative as it is??? I'm stumped. 5 more days to go :(

On the other hand Christmas is around the corner, and I am starting to get all my goodies rolling, trying to (start) wrap up gifts for the kiddos, and get into the spirit. Fortunately, as exhausting as they are, the boys are too funny!