The Mom Song

Hahahaha... Kaely wrote a song for me- and Chase decided to be her backup singer... LOL

Renewed Perspective- Date Night Edition

Yep- finally made it out for our first date night since waaaaay before having Chase. This was NOT easy for me to finally follow through leaving him- even for a short time. What did make it easier was that I pushed dinner reservations back to where I was able to give Chase an early bath and get him settled in for bedtime. So we didn't miss much "awake" time. We didn't have any real plans in the works- but my sister made it clear that we were not to return before 4 hours. She reassured me by agreeing to send photos and updates- buttttt.... still. Hard to believe it had been about a year since Dave and I had actually had a night to go out and enjoy a glass of wine and be able to eat seared tuna and not stress about food restrictions or other pregnancy or baby-in-a-restaurant-and-crying issues :) 

Not gonna lie, it took some time to actually relax, not inhale the food, and stop checking my phone. First part of the perspective was people watching (a favorite past-time of ours), and ad-libbing conversations at tables of other people. Since we laid the ground rule of not talking  about Chase, our family, work, or the "move"- it seemed to eliminate a lot of what we talk about now. LOL. Not saying we were able to stick to it- but we tried- our life really does revolve around Chase now. Kaely is there too- but she's so much more self-reliant, that we don't worry as much. 

Being able to take small bites and not scarf down the food was another issue. I'm so used to either eating with one hand, or hurrying up before Chase becomes demanding, it really was the first time I've eaten a full meal without worrying about him at that moment. I will say it was absolutely delicious! But stretching the time out needs some work. We finished dinner with more than 2 hours left of our "4 hour reverse curfew"- and where as we might go scope out crazy places in the past years- I felt the need to stick close. So we wandered over to Starbucks to grab some coffee, then went across the street to a wine bar that had a live Jazz band- which was awesome. 

However- this is where the reality check really came into play. We sat there on the couch sipping a glass of wine, and listening to the band, when I looked around us and realized that we were sitting in a 40-50 yr old age demographic- not that there's anything wrong with that! LOL. But just went, crap, we're getting old. Continuing our conversation inserts- I was laughing at the guy drinking an appletini- when up walks a couple of Dave's friends. This was ironic because they live down in South Florida now- and here they were up here- go figure. Normally I'd be cranky about the interruption, but for the sake of entertainment I figured okay... The lifestyle differences between us all became abundantly clear when stories of "driving the new Lamborghini up," (which of course Dave had to sit in), and the latest trip to Vegas, going out on the boat, or other adventures of the single & well-off were told. Reminded me of an old friend of ours who used to say that when he saw a child he thought of it as a yacht or car or house (clearly someone who never intended to have children). We tried to hang out for a short time, but the gap of reality yawned wide and I felt like a true outsider looking in. So detached from what paths each of us chose over the years- what really do you have left in common? 

While I do have a love of cars/planes/boats- purely because I love speed & adventure- I still view those flashy cars as a bit of "over-compensation" if you will. I wouldn't trade anything in the world for my children- and no- I don't wish that was us driving the flashy car or taking wild trips and partying it up. The best part of the night was coming home and holding Chase. I loved being able to spend time with just Dave again for a short time- but you know- I am okay with staying in and renting movies and cooking dinner together. Sure, it's not glamorous- but I think that our happiness and contentment with our life (minus the distance of where to live), far surpasses the single life of those we know who are always chasing the dream... 

So I sit here on a Monday with a slobbering, chunky, baby boy on my chest- planning what meals I may whip up this week, and when to pick up Kaely from school... laughing a bit at the randomness that our lives have brought us and changed us for it... See? For me- the boys out walking, showing off their shades, is better than anything money could provide superficially. I am pretty darn lucky, don't you think?

Motion Pictures

I haven't posted any videos lately, so I figured I'd put a few up- photos don't usually do him justice when considering how many different expressions, noises, etc he makes. 

This is how he nearly wants to roll over, but just makes use of twisting around to see what he wants. I sit there and try to coach him- like come ON already! We spread a quilt on the floor a lot now, that way he has all the room to do what he wants. It is fun to see him really reaching for his toys and interacting now though... 

Then we have the noises- hahaha... the past week or two he's been really experimenting with his sounds. He makes the noises then kind of looks surprised, like where did that come from??? When he's upset he tends to form sounds like "daddaadadada" - or other vowel/consonant sounds. We'll see what word he finally speaks first with consistency- I'm keeping my fingers crossed for mama ;) 

A ton of other videos we have, but I'm holding out for those darn milestones already... ugh! Patience is not a virtue I possess :) 

Bath Blunders

Sometime last week as I was changing Chase's diaper, I really noticed for the first time how chunky his legs really are. Not only that, but worse than his neck, it is truly a trap for disgusting hidden wonders. I unraveled the folds only to find all sorts of smelly lint and such. GROSS. It made me think- CRAP! When did he really develop those crazy creases, and have I been slacking that badly on bathtime??? I mean, his neck is always a big place that I make sure to get, plus all those boy parts that are weird (okay- still getting used to the little boy differences- LOL). But his legs- his chunky little legs... soooooo- now I have expanded my checklist to his bathing routine.

Just saw a clip on a show I watch, and it was all about bathing an infant- haha. Things like making sure the water isn't too hot (I will say I tend to go warmer for Chase- now I'm wondering- but the kid would live in the water if I'd let him). Slippery little bugs that they are, I still find it nerve wracking trying to pick him up and wrap him in the towel- yes I did it with Kaely for years- but geez, as he gets heavier, it just makes me nervous some days. His infant tub has the sling in it, but he's in this inbetween size where he is too heavy to lay in it, so the bump that is there to help prop him to sitting ends up in his back. But trying to keep him sitting is nearly impossible. He arches his back, pushes himself up and backwards, creating a tidal wave, and refuses to sit still. He of course thinks it's hilarious. Sigh... so, I'm going to have to figure out another way around these challenges until he's strong enough to truly sit on his own- not too far down the road, but in the meantime... The more he eats "real food" the more baths we're going to have to incorporate into our days. Hehe... at least he makes me laugh!

Entertainment Beyond Baby Gear

As parents, we invest a lot into obtaining the latest & greatest baby gear that's out there... don't get me wrong, the bouncy seat for us is invaluable- at least for me to be able to cook, shower, or eat :) But as I discovered (and clearly have forgotten) with Kaely, I could (and can) save a ton of money because what they really want to play with are things that belong to us parents or are basic tools around the house. For Kaely, it's always been anything and everything in the kitchen- pots, pans, spoons, etc. Or, more so, my shoes. I catch her in my closet constantly, stealing my shoes and clopping around the house. This has gone on since... just over 1 year old? Maybe 2. Sadly she's starting to actually fit into them- that's just scary.

So, Chase's "Growth Spurt" this week has seemed to be more developmental and strength related. All of a sudden yesterday he was awake all day. I mean, truly, all day. He took two 10 minute naps, but did not sleep until Dad held him around 6 when I went to the store. So about 1 1/2 hours nap between 7 am and 9 pm- I was stumped. That also meant lots of required entertaining of the baby. The burp cloths serve lots of purposes- from his constant spitting up (the child eats a ton- and clearly over-eats), to almost being a "blankie" that he holds and chews on, to playing peek-a-boo. Very effective for a good 15 minutes (LOL). Then we have sitting him on the couch. Sounds random- but he loves this more than his bouncy seat (he hates the swing), more than the entertainment mats, etc because he can see what's going on at our level, and maybe because he feels like a "big boy?" My favorite discovery last night, was how he loves to look at the laptop (ugh!), and is intrigued by faces/people... so I realized, duh! I turned the webcam on (not on record), and voila! He is highly entertained by the baby that interacts with him on the computer. Haha! Side bonus? We work on core strength as he sits up to do it.

I have been shocked this week as he has shown he can sit up (for short periods) on his own, holding just my fingers. He is nearly there working on rolling over (he was so near these milestones months ago- but the heavier he gets, the harder it seems to be), he keeps twisting around checking everything out around him. Already mentioned his backwards scooting transportation methods. Showing real interest in solids now- I'm starting to wonder if I can keep up with his demands, so it's good timing. His curiosity continues to grow. Last night he slept all night, He fell asleep- on his own- around 9pm, then didn't wake up until a bit after 6am to eat. Granted, I was in some pain, but holy crap! :)

So- yes, I'm in another stage of being amazed and awed by our little boy who is growing insanely fast! As my sister mentioned yesterday- it seems he skipped a full month of growing- went from being small and behind, to bigger than his cousin, and now in 6 month size clothes! I am still working on wrapping my mind around it- but I'll just keep grinning and bragging in the meantime :)

A Whole Bunch of Nothing

Pretty much what describes the week now... aside from the typical chaos of watching two infants and a high energy 1st grader. AH! Not a whole lot of updates... Still working on milestones such as rolling over- which actually he's been making a lot of progress today as he keeps twisting to look at what is beyond his head... soon I hope! We've tried apples, pears, bananas, and peaches now- his favorite (go figure) is the bananas- loves them! Still only feeding an ounce or two of the food a day though- just enough to play with flavors- still relying 95% on breastfeeding. But he is gaining weight steadily- that's for sure! His strength increases daily- no longer worried about his bobble head, and he's been able to sit for a minute by just holding onto my fingers- crazy! He's been rebelling against tummy time- he just lays there and either stares at me, or falls asleep- refusing to move. UGH! He does scoot around all over (if I let him) on his back- lifts his butt high in the air and launches himself backwards. It's great until diaper changing time- then? Good luck!!! Either way- things are good, just going through the days and losing track of time :)

Happy Mother's Day!

First, a Happy Mother's Day to all the mamas out there- and now all the grand-mamas and aunts and everyone who has an impact in our lives. I am twice blessed to be a mama to the best two kids ever! (Even if they drive me batty)... My hubby is stacking up the points for Father's Day- Dave and Kaely had the surprises lined up this morning- even if Chase helped by making sure everyone was up by 7am (really???). Started with breakfast in bed (served on a baking sheet-hahahaha), complete with OJ, coffee, oranges, grapefruit, cinnamon rolls, bacon and eggs- oh my! Delicious! (Just don't look at the kitchen!). Kaely made a "scroll" for me- complete with the things she loves about me, and what I help her do. I got a new charm for my bracelet - reminds me of a candy heart with "Best Mom" on it. One of my favorites though was the classroom cookbook- absolutely hilarious. Each child contributed their favorite recipe- and her teacher typed what the believed the ingredients were, how much, how long, etc- awesome. Then on the opposite page was a real recipe for what they mentioned... too cute! Chase and Dad got flowers, and Kaely painted the frames for me... overall- best Mother's Day ever! We got to go see our moms as well, and made it home in time before we had full out meltdowns from our little man. Finished off the night with ordering pizza- what a way to end the day!

Happy Mother's Day!